3 Signs He Doesn't Feel Much Like You: Queen Mobile

You like it but not that much. She loves you, but not that much. how do you know What are you doing? In this article, we'll show you signs that you're not feeling so well by answering some of the most popular questions in our inbox:

“I feel like I don't like it that much. Sometimes it's in me and sometimes it's not. It's so hard to move on and follow what I want.”

– Ijomi

Sign One: mixed signals

Mixed signals are a very strong indicator that he doesn't feel that much about you.

Women are great at showing you exactly how they feel, except:

They are not sure what they are feeling:

Yes, even a woman can be unsure of what she feels. This is rare, but it happens. It happened to a client of mine several times.

It happens because the woman is confused or regrets her choice to be with you or around you.

They are afraid:

If he's afraid of hurting you, he won't tell you exactly how he feels. She will keep giving you mixed signals until you get tired and let go.

The best thing to do when a woman is giving you mixed signals is to confront her. Ask directly. Don't try to dampen anything. Unlike men, women often lose it in direct confrontation; this is why they tend to “run away” from their own feelings.

This is also why men want to assume that women do not have any kind of responsibility.

Accountability involves confronting your own beliefs, thoughts, and actions and making peace with them. Women don't do this often.

Ask him directly, “Do you like it? I want to know. I don't want to stay here, waiting for something I'm not sure about.”

My bet is that he will try to turn things around and avoid the question. Do not, and I repeat: do not let this happen.

Hold your question until she gives an answer.

“It felt like being in a cage. She only wanted me when I made an effort to leave. When things were going well, and I seemed to be very stable and there for her, she took me for granted.”

– Halim

Read: Indicators that you are wrong about her

Signs Two: Good signs come when you threaten to leave

By now, you should be able to tell the type of person Halima was dealing with. I was dealing with a type of family toxicity. He's a guy I see very often.

If he's not into you until you walk away, then he's not that into you. She's just using you as a pawn, and I'm guessing you fulfill one or more of these four roles:

The supplier:

She will often stop you from leaving if you do a good job of being her provider. She will pretend to be heartbroken by your desire to leave and blackmail you however she can.

You may even get friends to lie on your behalf.

But the truth is, he's not feeling you that much. She only feels what you do for her.

The sexual object:

You will be surprised to know that even women cling to guys who give them great sex.

If he really likes having sex with you, he won't let you go. At least without a fight and a lot of blackmail.

She will promise you a relationship that should last a lifetime after she is “sure” she loves you – she will demand that you wait until she gets that moment of security.

All the lies.

You better get out of there before things get out of hand.

The Creator of Esteem:

Maybe, just maybe, you're the guy who builds his self-esteem.

If this is true, he won't let you go without a fight, even when he keeps giving you mixed signals.

The sad thing about this is that you will never know that you are this guy until the relationship comes to an end and you enter that moment of self-realization.

“Oh, had I been the one building up his esteem all along?”

The object of lust:

She doesn't like you that much. But she likes that you made her the object of your lust. It's also okay for you to be the object of their lust.

He may or may not have sex with you.

But she won't let you go. You can count on this. The mind games will take such a wild turn when you make the slightest move that suggests your desire to go.

“Sometimes, I felt like I was drowning. Like there was something I needed. Water. And I never got it. She didn't care either.”

– Shaw.

Read: Indicators that you are losing interest and what to do

Sign three: It's always about her

If it's always about her, then you should know that she's just using you and she doesn't like you.

A woman who is into you will care. She's going to give a shit about how you feel and what you do.

She's not going to be all about herself.

The moment you find out that she only thinks about herself, you should start thinking about leaving.

Keep in mind that you'll want to keep it within reach by playing mind games.

It's best to ignore the games.

Don't play mind games with women. You will almost always lose.

You will lose so much that you keep coming back to the starting point. don't play Just call it bullshit and go on your way.

Summary

A woman is going to give you a lot of signs when she doesn't feel that much for you. Allow yourself to let go and go after someone who truly loves you.