How to be the special guy you want – Queen Mobile

The truth is that she already has many men behind her. And many of these men are still fighting to be at the top. In this article, we'll show you how to be the special guy she decides to pursue. Our tips will make the dating and seduction phase pretty easy for you.

1. Not compensating

One of the mistakes many guys make is what they try to make up for.

With women, overcompensation doesn't work precisely because it reeks of desperation.

It helps to accept that desperation is the #1 killer of attraction. And women can detect desperation from miles away. As soon as the guy starts showing signs that he's desperate, something in the woman makes her pull away from that man.

Sometimes it's hard to know when you're overcompensating because you think it doesn't mean anything or because you may be in denial.

Some key signs that you are overcompensating include:

• You give up your time, and I mean your productive time, just so you can talk to her. The moment your interaction with a woman starts to affect your productivity, you are overcompensating and desperate. You should talk to her in your spare moments. That is exactly what she is doing herself. Very few women will give up their productive time just to talk to a man.
• You have to make time for it: whether many men accept it or not, the truth is that many men try to buy time and affection from women. You can't really negotiate true attraction; you shouldn't even try because you'll not only fail, you'll make a fool of yourself.
• You suppress your own needs: if you feel the need to suppress your own needs, then you are most likely overcompensating and this is not going to make you that special guy. It's just going to make the rest of the guys in your inbox like you, begging you to notice them.
• You are already faithful: your loyalty as a man should be very expensive. It should be like a listed treasure; you don't just give in to anyone. Giving up your loyalty or commitment too early in the interaction can be a form of virtual cycling. A lot of guys do this, and it's really funny because you don't score the virtue to get into a woman's good books. She looks at your fake commitment and says, “Oh wow, he wants to show me he's committed so I can commit to him too.”

2. Do not compete

Women are more observant than we give them credit for.

A couple of years ago, I was at a camp meeting with a group of students like myself.

There were many men and many women sharing the same space. As soon as we reached the camp area, I noticed some men starting to step into their primitive roles.

They began to compete not only for space in the account area. They also competed for women's attention.

There were special bedding materials in that camp. Many boys would struggle to acquire special bedding, leaving the less comfortable ones for the other boys who would not struggle.

Some even went ahead and purchased the special bedding for women they thought were attractive enough in the hope that these women would find them strong and lovely.

It was at camp that I learned my biggest lesson about women and the dating experience.

Previously, he expected women to gravitate towards men who could secure them comfortable positions. But the opposite happened.

Almost every attractive woman who attended that camp started turning on guys who really didn't care that much.

The relaxed nature of these men was too attractive to pass up.

The same is true in the dating scene.

Men who have a strong desire to compete and please women will not attract the attention of these women. At best, they will only have a simple, innocent, barely sexual interaction.

If you're going to be the special guy, you have to prioritize your efforts and attention. Don't compete. Allow the woman to come to you by attracting her with an aura of unpredictability.

Read: The things women secretly want

3. Master without trying

Effortless success is one of the most attractive things a person can have.

Women look for men who are able to dominate and succeed without even trying too hard.

You should show him what you master effortlessly.

In your initial interaction with her, you should dominate from an intellectual standpoint.

While she brings her emotions and feelings into conversations, she dominates from a logical point of view. Be the very smart and calculating guy, but at the same time be less willing to prove yourself.

Very few guys are able to pull this off.

And if you're like that, you'll be the type who has no problem getting women.

4. Have fun while playing the game

Many men hate the game. They keep saying the game is hard to play and somewhat manipulative.

Well, it's true that the game is manipulative but at the same time you don't have to play by all the rules.

You just have to learn the rules and use them to your advantage.

This is what makes many guys special.

Don't hate the game. play it Play everything on the hardest and as calmly as you can.

Most women also really love the game. If they find someone who can play as much as them, then they will really love this one.

You will become that special guy without even trying to be him.

Read: How to activate your sexual desire

5. Flirt a lot

The special guy is really great at flirting.

And this is because he is very bold and really not afraid to flirt.

He knows that flirting with a woman very early in the interaction alone is a dangerous zone, but he moves into that zone without fear.

It's his boldness that makes him special.

Women like men who are bold and willing and able to take risks.

Audacity promises you an adventure.

He promises that there will be a lot of excitement with the man involved.

Learn how to flirt with a woman properly. Highlight a role: flirt for the best response zone.

If she responds, continue. If he doesn't, let him go.

6. Audacity

i know i know All over social media, women talk about how they really hate it when men have a truckload of audacity.

One thing you have to understand about women and accept as a reality that you can twist to your advantage is that what women like and what women respond to are very different things.

Women talk about how they like caring guys who give them gifts and flowers and always listen when they talk. But a guy like that shows up, and what happens?

The woman is friendly to the area.

Whereas she responds sexually to the guy she keeps talking about hating.

The point is, women don't hate it when men are bold. They really love and are incredibly attracted to this trait.

Boldness means that the man is in control of himself and the people around him. A woman wants to follow this type of man, and that's why she's going to consider him a very special guy.

7. Humour

I don't know anyone who doesn't find funny and nice people to be around special.

Humor is one of the most amazing things a person can have, especially a man.

Be that special guy you really want and have an innate love for being funny.

Conquer and improve with your sarcastic comments.

Make her laugh at herself if necessary. That is special. Not many guys can make even the darkest situations look fun. And guys who always end up in a woman's bed.

Of all the guys a woman admires, it's the one who promises ease, the one who makes her feel like there's nothing left to be sad about, the one who wins.

This guy always wins.

Read: How to keep him coming back for more

8. Be homemade

Yes, be sure. Women like it when guys are safe and comfortable.

You don't have to be the jerk who lets women question themselves all the time. Be the guy who checks in on them from time to time and promises to be there if any difficulties arise.

Be the guy who takes them on a date they won't forget in a hurry. Just don't do it so much that it becomes one of those things that just happens in his mind.

This is how you stay special and relevant to her.

Special boys do special things. Or at least do the same things differently.